Do a Lot of Men Think It's Funny to Ruin a Woman's Hairstyle?

Bear with me on this question, I don't want to sound shallow. My ex boyfriend always joked about paying to get my hair done. Afterwards he'd mess it up because he paid for it, which is why I never took him up on that offer and moral conflict too.





On Valentine's Day I took 45 minutes to do a new hairstyle for him and he thought it was hilarious to mess it up later that night. What is up with that? I know other guys (not necessarily friends) who feel the same way.





Do they not know how long it takes to get hair done? Sitting there smelling a mix of spritz and curling wax, sitting under a hot dryer for long periods of time, neck pain, numbing butt, occasional hot iron burns, etc.





I don't understand what makes them think they can do such a thing, it's not funny at all. If I paid for him to get his hair braided or beard trimmed and then ran my electric shaver across it and made a patch on his head it wouldn't be funny nor right at all.Do a Lot of Men Think It's Funny to Ruin a Woman's Hairstyle?
Maybe you should wait until he's asleep and then shave a smiley face onto the back of his head. This would give him an opportunity to demonstrate his appreciation of hairstyle humour.





Or maybe it's time to talk seriously to him about it. If he really thinks it's funny and doesn't know you don't like his messing it up, you probably should set him straight rather than keep letting it bother you.Do a Lot of Men Think It's Funny to Ruin a Woman's Hairstyle?
You know you're in trouble when a question from a woman starts out ';Bear with me on this question, I don't want to sound shallow. ';





So you've basically admitted that it's a shallow question. That's a good start.





And to answer the question : If she gets as riled up as you do I think it would be goddamn hilarious to mess up her hairstyle.
We women are obsessed with our hair, aren't we? We spend loads of money on it, loads of time on it, its our crowning glory!





I think that subconsciously, blokes do this because in some small childish way, it makes them feel like they have got one up on us, and makes them feel a little teeny weeny bit superior, and in control.
First of all, you should not sit under a hot, bubbling stew of toxic hair chemicals.





Second of all, yes, it is hilarious to ruin a chick's hair if she is the type that goes through that whole ordeal.
Nothing funny about ruining a woman's hair -- but I have to admit -- there's something funny about messing with the vanity of a woman who's consumed by her vanity.
They do it because they actually don't like your hair to be all ';done'; - guys like the natural look for the most part, not that artificial crap. So stop wasting your money honey.
Sorry if this isn't a proper answer but I HATE it when guys do that. I have no idea why they do it, do they want a slap? lol





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Haha it sure is funny, especially when they make a big deal out of it. It happens to me but I really just don't care...
I suppose it just depends on how he is messing it up ...you weren't very specific ...like was he blowing his load in it or what???
How did he mess up your hair? This has never happened to me before.
boo hoo hoo, poor you.